201 Great Questions - #86

In one of my first posts, I said I would use some "get to know you" questions as blog topics. So here's my first attempt.

What does ugly mean to you? Describe it.

Well, my first reaction to this question is the obvious - physical appearance. Whether it's because I'm a woman, and physical attractiveness is important to me or because in our culture sex appeal is such a big deal or perhaps I'm just more shallow than I'd like to think I am.

In any case, I try not to focus too much on how attractive (or not) people are, but I would be lying if I said I don't notice it. I'm not going to go any further down that path though, I don't want to incriminate myself.

But after I get to know people, appearances fall away. Usually I can connect with people, and I can appreciate whatever quirks and personality traits they have. But some people, some personality traits I would consider ugly.

I consider dishonesty and fakeness among the ugliest traits a person can demonstrate. I would rather deal with someone who is negative or someone who is stubborn or forgetful - at least I know what to expect.

So what do you think? Do you agree? disagree? have anything to add?

I realize my answer was a little cliche, but oh well. Maybe I'll come back to this later on my own. Moreso, hopefully someone will say something thought provoking and bring me back.